Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Secrets for Passionate Sex



Everyone wants to have the passionate sex whenever they have it, but it is true that in spite of the passionate sexual encounter they end up with the boring monotonous sex. These types of sexual encounters often are unsatisfactory. To make to sex satisfactory, passion plays an important part in it. Passionate sexual encounters are always satisfactory. Passion is found in abundance during the first few sexual encounters, but after some days same sexual encounters, passion gets the backseat and the sexual encounters just become the mechanical task. There are some techniques through which you can take your sexual encounters to the new level of intimacy. So, I am revealing some hidden secrets about the sex that you can follow and make your every sexual encounter passionate:

Secret 1. Make Foreplay Mandatory

Foreplay is the initial task in the sex that makes you ready for the further passionate sexual activity. More time should be dedicated to the foreplay in order to make the sex passionate. There is vast difference between the orgasm time of the men and women, so if men go fast then there are the chances that you will finish before your partner is satisfied. Thus, men should spend more time on foreplay in order to match up with the slow pace of women. Foreplay is the dramatic event or prologue of the sexual interest towards your partner. Foreplay may include touching and massaging erogenous zone, undressing each other, stimulation of the genitals, or even a deep kiss. Foreplay is the best technique for giving the sexual pleasure and arousal. Foreplay reaches its peak in the moments just before intercourse, when it induces a strong mutual desire for penetration.

Secret 2. Oral Pleasures

Oral pleasures are most erotic part of the sexual activity. Yes it is quite difficult to for everybody to go for the oral sex, but once you start it, and then you will love it and always do it. Touching game is the only activity that turns your partner the most. Touching your partner intimate parts with the mouth and tongue gives the most erogenous feeling. Men feels most passionate when there partner takes the penis in mouth and stimulate it with the tongue. Women also feel the extreme pleasure when men stimulate their clitoris with the tongue. The oral sex when done of woman is termed as Cunnilingus and when performed on a man is termed as fellatio. Oral sex is the most passionate part of the sexual activity.

Secret 3. Understand Each Others Needs

Unless you understand each other, you will never become comfortable with each other. Sex should be understood before you go for it. Ask your partner about his sexual needs and share yours with him. Please understand that sex is act of pleasure that should be enjoyed by both the partners. Please learn the art of sex, it is not about comparing or winning the battle, it is art of lovemaking and should be done with the passion. Avoid concentrating on yourself while doing sex. Learn to concentrate on your partner’s body this will help you as well as partner to enjoy the sex. Explore new areas of pleasure that your partner enjoys and pay more attention to those areas what your partner likes.

Secret 4. Try Out New Things

By trying out the new things you will surely break the routine boredom of sex. Women as well as men can contribute in making their sex life passionate. You can share your wild fantasies with your partner and if your partner is okay about it then you can surely try it out. You can refer to the books like Kama Sutra and try all the new positions in it. This will rekindle the sexual zing in both the partners. Even you can try sex at different places like on dinner table, bathroom, swimming pool, etc.

Thus, use all these sexy secrets and do your every sexual experience passionate and unforgettable.

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